I will arrive at the hospital no later than 5:30 AM on March 24. When I arrive I will have a penis and testes. When I go to sleep that night, I will have a vagina and labia. No other day in my transition will be quite so stark as
“When you have the surgery, will you tell future partners that you’re trans?” As my surgery date (March 24, 2021) draws nearer people have more and more questions about what life looks like for me as a post-op, fully blending (passing), trans woman. I am, to so many people, the
On March 24th, 2021, a just slightly over 2 years after having my first dose of estradiol, I will undergo bottom surgery. Don’t worry, I’ll tell you more about it later. For now, what you need to know is that I’m getting a vagina. The Surgery ™ is probably the
Can we be honest with each other? 2020 has been just awful. This year has been totally defined by division, separation, and isolation. Not to be the naive optimist, but I believe that wherever there’s turmoil, we can find the seeds of growth. In isolation, so many people have found
Don't Really Understand Trans Stuff?
If you’re like lots of folks I work with, you probably find learning about trans issues to be a little scary. There’s all this new vocabulary, and a lot of these ideas don’t make sense to you. It can all be very overwhelming.
So to help you get started, every two weeks I offer a NO COST 90 minute session to help you get the basics down.