The Marble Woman

The Marble Woman

I will arrive at the hospital no later than 5:30 AM on March 24. When I arrive I will have a penis and testes. When I go to sleep that night, I will have a vagina and labia. No other day in my transition will be quite so stark as

Confession: The Shame You Desire of Trans Women

Confession: The Shame You Desire of Trans Women

“When you have the surgery, will you tell future partners that you’re trans?” As my surgery date (March 24, 2021) draws nearer people have more and more questions about what life looks like for me as a post-op, fully blending (passing), trans woman. I am, to so many people, the

Girl Reconfigured Part 1: A Glimpse into the Mind of a Trans Woman One Month Before Bottom Surgery

Girl Reconfigured Part 1: A Glimpse into the Mind of a Trans Woman One Month Before Bottom Surgery

On March 24th, 2021, a just slightly over 2 years after having my first dose of estradiol, I will undergo bottom surgery. Don’t worry, I’ll tell you more about it later. For now, what you need to know is that I’m getting a vagina. The Surgery ™ is probably the

How to Be The Person Your Trans Family Hopes For This Holiday Season

How to Be The Person Your Trans Family Hopes For This Holiday Season

Can we be honest with each other? 2020 has been just awful. This year has been totally defined by division, separation, and isolation. Not to be the naive optimist, but I believe that wherever there’s turmoil, we can find the seeds of growth. In isolation, so many people have found

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Don't Really Understand Trans Stuff?

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If you’re like lots of folks I work with, you probably find learning about trans issues to be a little scary. There’s all this new vocabulary, and a lot of these ideas don’t make sense to you. It can all be very overwhelming. 

So to help you get started, every two weeks I offer a NO COST 90 minute session to help you get the basics down.

Vocabulary & Terminology

Learn what all those new words and acronyms mean. You’ll learn how to properly gender folks, understand what “nonbinary” actually means, and finally get a handle on all those pesky acroynms.

Allyship & Etiquette

Already know a lot, but you want to do more? We’ll cover next steps you can take to actually support trans people.

Open Q&A

Every session we give you room to ask absolutely anything you want.  This is a safe space to finally get those questions off your mind.

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